Speaking
Are you looking for a friendly, funny, energetic couple to liven up your party?
One of our favorite ways to contribute to the Lifestyle community is by speaking at events.
From our flagship Approach, Connect, and Close talk to deeper, relationship-focused presentations, we are always excited to educate the Lifestyle community! Check out our current list of topics and see what might be a fit at your event.
Want us to speak about something specific? Let us know! We love crafting unique content.
One of our favorite ways to contribute to the Lifestyle community is by speaking at events.
From our flagship Approach, Connect, and Close talk to deeper, relationship-focused presentations, we are always excited to educate the Lifestyle community! Check out our current list of topics and see what might be a fit at your event.
Want us to speak about something specific? Let us know! We love crafting unique content.
Approach, Connect, and Close!
Go from afraid and intimidated, to relaxed and laid, all while avoiding drama, anxiety, and hurt feelings! The 3 most important skills couples need to learn in the Lifestyle are how to properly and efficiently meet new people, bond with them quickly, and then get them into bed! This class will cover all 3, plus tried-and-true tips and tricks for having as much fun as possible at Lifestyle events. Whether you're a brand new couple, or a seasoned swinger, we will teach (or remind) you how to be a Lifestyle Power Couple that goes for what they want... and gets it!
Managing Group Play
"I'm just here for the gangbang" is a hilarious shirt to wear, but not the best attitude to have in the playroom. Learn the ins-and-outs of threesomes, fivesomes, and moresomes so you can get into cuddle puddles with confidence! This talk will cover the common questions, fears, and anxieties of group play including topics like consent, etiquette, safety, and of course, how to make it happen! We also discuss tips for performance anxiety and how things change when it's ladies only!
Where Do We Go From Here?
You've just tried some new things you've never tried before, or maybe it was your first Lifestyle event... Now what? Lifestyle parties are fun but they can also be challenging. They can push you outside your comfort zone, bring up feelings old and new, and they have the power to change the way you think! Sometimes we need to take a moment to decompress and reflect on what just happened so we can integrate the experience into our lives in a useful way. Bring your stories and questions and we will put them in a frame that will help you bond and grow from your adventures. We will also discuss how to find more awesome events, how to keep in touch with your new friends, and the resources you can use to educate yourself more about the Lifestyle!
Fasting for F@#kers
We share our knowledge and experience on the benefits of a fasting-focused lifestyle and the ketogenic diet. Together we describe the basics of both topics and dramatically simplify the protocol so people can begin to experiment with these options immediately and without fear. Since this is still a Lifestyle talk, the benefits of fasting and keto will be highlighted against the backdrop of fun, effectiveness, and performance at Lifestyle events like cruises and takeovers. Learn how this diet literally makes you more attractive, better in bed, and more fun to be around!
Healing Trauma Inside Relationships
One of the saddest things we see as relationship consultants are couples that could be happier but aren't due to shame and fear from past traumas getting in the way. Your primary relationship should be the one safe place where you and your partner can let your guards down and help each other heal - but so many people are too afraid to try, or simply don't know where to begin. We pull back the covers on our own relationship and discuss examples of our past traumas and the tools we used to overcome them. Healing broken trust, unconscious wounds, trigger words, and physical trauma are all covered - but don't worry! You'll leave feeling inspired, not sad!
Navigating the Lifestyle
Totally new to the Lifestyle? This talk is an in-depth overview that covers all the different types of parties and interactions you might encounter in the scene. It also covers how to talk about swinging with your partner before, during, and after an event. If you're curious about the scene or are considering attending your first party then you're not going to want to miss this talk!
Navigating The Playrooms
Does your party have some unique play areas? Do you need someone to educate your crowd about playroom locations, hours of operation, and proper etiquette? We have spent plenty of time as Playroom Managers and are uniquely qualified to share general playroom tips as well as any information specific to your event!
Private Dating/Relationship Consultations
In addition to public speaking, we also provide private consultations and coaching on dating and relationship topics. If you are interested in a 1-on-1, 2-on-1 (is it getting hot in here?), or 2-on-2 (now it's a party!) coaching call over Skype or phone, please click here!
Hosting
Looking for a pair of Sextivities Directors for your next event? The Direttos know how to get the party started and keep it going until the playrooms close!
We are happy to run meet & greets, icebreakers, and games to entertain your crowd and keep the vibe playful and sexy all party long!
Some of our favorite activities are:
We are happy to run meet & greets, icebreakers, and games to entertain your crowd and keep the vibe playful and sexy all party long!
Some of our favorite activities are:
- Swinger Speed Dating
- The Human Car Wash
- Sexlympics Events
- Strip Cards Against Humanity
- Swinger Truth or Dare Jenga
- Pole/Lapdance/Hula/Twerk Competition
- Topless Karaoke