Summary
Mike & Lilly of Diretto Lifestyle Skills are dating and relationship consultants with a passion for teaching people how to connect, communicate, and navigate social events such as crazy Lifestyle takeovers! They have been in the Lifestyle for almost 10 years and help people overcome social/approach anxiety, self-esteem issues, awkward communication, and more fun-limiting things that prevent folks from having the best time possible. The Direttos give talks and private coaching sessions on relationship and Lifestyle topics to help partygoers meet more people, have more fun, and get more play!
Who Are We? How DiD We Get Here?
Who Do we Help?
Before we answer those questions, let's just make sure you're in the right place with this simple quiz:
If you answered YES to all 3, then we can help you! We teach universal principles that can be applied by anyone, at any time in their life, and regardless of their level of experience.
You also DO NOT have to be in the Lifestyle to get the benefits. We teach the same concepts to vanilla students looking to improve their dating, personal, and professional lives in a variety of settings.
Now that you know you're not too old, too young, too inexperienced, or too vanilla to be here, allow us to introduce ourselves!
- Are you a person between the ages of 18 and 80?
- Do you like to have fun?
- Do you think there might be ANY aspect of yourself that you could improve on in order to have more fun, more connection, or to save yourself time, money, or heartache?
If you answered YES to all 3, then we can help you! We teach universal principles that can be applied by anyone, at any time in their life, and regardless of their level of experience.
You also DO NOT have to be in the Lifestyle to get the benefits. We teach the same concepts to vanilla students looking to improve their dating, personal, and professional lives in a variety of settings.
Now that you know you're not too old, too young, too inexperienced, or too vanilla to be here, allow us to introduce ourselves!
Ages: Mid-30s & Mid-20s (guess who's who)
Relationship: Together since 2011, Married 2017
Lifestyle: Discovered in 2014
Coaching: Since 2012
Like most superheroes (yes, that's how we see ourselves), we started off as total NERDS!
Fortunately, we were nerdy about the most useful things... communication skills, social dynamics, and sex (and drugs and rock'n roll too! We're not squares!)
In fact, Mike has been teaching single men how to approach women properly and be more authentic communicators for the past decade (everyone asks so we'll answer this right now... YES like Hitch... but better!).
It may surprise you to hear that we began in the Lifestyle a bit shy JUST LIKE many of our students. Despite our background and being generally outgoing people, we had NO IDEA how to navigate the scene when we first got started.
We had the same common questions that most people have when they first find this scene...
Who do we talk to?
What do we say?
How do we get the party started?
When do we pull the trigger?
Is this outfit TOO revealing?
And many more!
What do we say?
How do we get the party started?
When do we pull the trigger?
Is this outfit TOO revealing?
And many more!
Basically, we were just as insecure and unsure about things as you might be right now, and we put a lot of unnecessary pressure on ourselves because we didn't know what we were doing.
But we're fast learners, massive action takers, and some might say extreme partiers! In the 5 years we've been in the scene we've racked up more situational experience than your average couple, overcome our Lifestyle sticking points, had many victories, made plenty of mistakes, and kept track of the knowledge we've gained so we can share it with YOU!
From finding the best parties, to avoiding all kinds of drama, we've been through it all and come back with the info you need to save time, money, effort, and heartache in the scene, and hopefully your vanilla life as well!
But we're fast learners, massive action takers, and some might say extreme partiers! In the 5 years we've been in the scene we've racked up more situational experience than your average couple, overcome our Lifestyle sticking points, had many victories, made plenty of mistakes, and kept track of the knowledge we've gained so we can share it with YOU!
From finding the best parties, to avoiding all kinds of drama, we've been through it all and come back with the info you need to save time, money, effort, and heartache in the scene, and hopefully your vanilla life as well!
Contact Us
The best way to reach us is through email (mikeandlilly@direttoskills.com)
Check out our YouTube channel and Facebook page!
The Direttos spend most of their time in New England, USA
Check out our YouTube channel and Facebook page!
The Direttos spend most of their time in New England, USA